Wedding ceremonies are a big deal. They’re an emotional rollercoaster, a party, and – let’s be honest – an opportunity to wear an outrageously expensive dress or suit (and maybe even embarrass yourself on the dance floor). But beyond the sparkly stuff, your wedding day is all about celebrating you and your love story. And if you want a ceremony that’s as unique as your relationship, then a celebrant-led ceremony might just be the ticket to taking your big day from "meh" to "wow."
Photograph courtesy of Salvador at Evergreen Malaga
As celebrants, we get to stand up in front of a group of people and talk about love for a living, and so we can tell you why a celebrant-led wedding is by far the best choice. So grab a cuppa (or something stromger!), settle in, and let’s talk celebrant-led.
Totally Bespoke – because you’re not like everyone else
One of the best things about a celebrant-led ceremony is that it’s completely customisable. You don’t have to stick a pre-written script (unless you want to, in which case, just let us know and we’ll write you the most romantic vows ever). You can include whatever you like – funny anecdotes, a favourite TV show reference, or that time you accidentally ended up with egg on your face on your first date (true love, right there).
You can pick a theme, include your quirkiest inside jokes, or get creative with a poem (please, no pressure, it doesn’t have to be Shakespearean). Are you thinking you’d like to involve your dog? Sure! Have your pet as your ring bearer! Do you want to start your ceremony with a TikTok dance? We won’t judge.
Your Love Story Gets the Spotlight (and yes, people may cry)
Ever wondered what it would be like to have your very own love story narrated to a captivated audience? Well, a celebrant can do just that. As celebrants, we take the time to get to know you and your partner, which means your wedding ceremony becomes a complete celebration of you. We’ll talk about how you met, your unique quirks, or that one time you got stuck in a traffic jam together for hours and discovered you still loved each other after 12 hours of sitting in the same car.
You’d be amazed how many guests tear up when they hear your personal love story. And if you have a particularly funny story about a disastrous first date (we all have them), don’t worry – I’ll make sure to add some cheeky humour to lighten the mood. Your guests will be tearing up one second and giggling the next. That’s the beauty of true love after all.
Choose Your Own Adventure (we like to call this location freedom)
Who says your ceremony has to take place in a stuffy old hall or a licensed venue? A celebrant-led ceremony gives you the freedom to choose any location that suits your vibe. Want to get married on a beach? Yes. In a forest? Go for it. On a rollercoaster? Well, that’s bold, but we’re here for it!
No more worrying about whether the venue will let you have that giant inflatable swan for the ceremony, or if you can have a “I Do” under the stars. The world is your oyster.
No Time Limits – take as long as you need to say “I do”
Have you ever attended a ceremony and thought, “That was nice, but I wish they had more time to say their vows instead of rushing through it like it was a high-speed train?” Well, with a celebrant-led ceremony, there’s no such thing as a rushed ceremony.
You can take your time to say your vows (no, we won’t be looking at the clock), include your favourite song, read out those heartfelt letters to each other, and let the emotion build. You can even have a mini-ritual, like lighting a candle, jumping over a broom, or doing a coordinated dance with your bridal party if that’s what you’re into.
It’s your day, so why not make it as emotional (or as hilarious) as you want?
Freedom to Be You – because who are you trying to impress?
Let’s be honest: every couple is different. And whether you’re a couple who’s all about tradition, or you’d rather skip the whole “blessing from a priest” thing and go with a secular ceremony, a celebrant will help make it happen. You can celebrate love in a way that feels true to who you are. Throw out every single traditional wedding rule if that’s what you want!
If you and your partner prefer a ceremony that’s a little less “churchy” and a little more “we’ve been binge-watching Netflix together for 10 years,” then, by all means, let’s make that happen. Whether it’s a spiritual ceremony or a totally secular one, the celebrant is there to reflect your unique relationship.
Memorable, Heartfelt, and a Little Bit Funny – just like you
One of the great things about a celebrant-led ceremony is that it’s a ceremony people will actually remember – for the right reasons. Your friends and family won’t be checking the time or wondering how soon they can get to the bar. You’ll have an experience that’s heartfelt, funny, and memorable – all in one. Trust us, your ceremony is going to be the talk of the town (in a good way).
So, if you want your big day to stand out from the crowd (as well as being very Instagram-worthy), then this is the way to go. Your guests will be talking about how they laughed, cried, and felt all the feels as they watched you exchange vows.
No Copy and Paste Ceremonies – just pure joy
With a celebrant-led ceremony, there’s no set formula to follow. You can completely bypass all the boring bits of a ceremony and focus on what matters most: celebrating love, friendship, and your future together. Whether you want to throw in a quirky twist or keep things super traditional, it’s all up to you. Your ceremony is a blank canvas, and a celebrant is there to make sure it’s a masterpiece.
Photograph courtesy of Chris at CRT Weddings
To Sum Up…
So, there you have it – why a celebrant-led ceremony is the best choice. It’s personal, flexible, and guaranteed to make you and your guests feel all the emotions (yes, there will probably be tears). You can be yourselves, laugh a lot, cry a little, and create a truly unique celebration of your love. And let’s be real – who doesn’t want to stand up there and have a celebrant tell the world how awesome your love is?
Trust us, you’ll remember it forever (and so will your guests, in the best way possible).
Rebecca x
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